Funerals
Whether sudden or expected, the death of a loved one can leave you with an overwhelming sense of loss and despair. We are here to support you practically, emotionally and spiritually. If you would like to talk to member of the clergy please contact the church office using the button below. You may also like to look at our page Pastoral Care.
We have a close relationship with the local funeral directors. While preparing for a funeral you will meet with a member of the clergy to discuss all aspects of the service: readings, tributes, music, prayers. You may find it helpful to look at the Church of England Website by clicking on this link: The Funeral Service Step by Step
To enquire about booking a clergy led funeral either at St John's Church or Surrey and Sussex Crematorium please click below or use the QR code to download the form onto your phone or tablet.
Funeral Enquiry Form
We provide options for burial for those who lived in the parish, including our Labyrinth for the burial of ashes. For further information please contact us and check our 'Churchyard' page: St John's Churchyard
Enquiry for Burial of Ashes (Committal) ONLY
Support The 'Ataloss' organisation provides a lot of useful help and information: At a Loss Website
We run a Bereavement Group which usually meets on the third Friday in the month 2.00-4.00pm which is open to all who have experienced loss.
We also run Bereavement Courses at St John's. For more information on the content of the course please visit:
If you wish to join a course please contact us.
For all enquiries to St John's Church please click below:
If you wish to enquire about using the Copthorne Parish Hub for your funeral reception please click below:

